We are also able to accept donations directly or through PayPal. We have some other fundraisers in the works as well.
ALL DONATIONS TO HELP US BRING HOME BABY F ARE TRULY APPRECIATED!!!
The
Cost of Adoption
As I have talked to people about the adoption
process, I have found out the most people I talk to don’t have any idea how
expensive adoption really is. When I say
that it is expensive, people generally assume that means around the $10, 000.00
range…I WISH! Once I tell them that our
estimated adoption expenses are between $35-55,000.00 they are generally in
disbelief and ask me why adoption is so expensive. (Yes, fostering in hopes of adopting is a lot
cheaper, but we have VERY valid reasons why we are not going that route and I
will blog about that in the very near future.)
I will try to break down the expenses for you, to the best of my ability
at the current time.
$300 – Application fee to be “pre-evaluated” for
a home study
$2250-2500 – Home Study fees and preparation
$250 – Fingerprinting and background checks for
all three of us for our home study
$3000 – Consultant
fee; we plan to go with a consultant that networks with adoption lawyers,
adoption agencies, and social services agencies all over the country. The consultants help share our profile to birth
parents that are preparing to place their child with adoptive parents.
$8000-10,000 –
lawyer fees, both in our home state and in the state of our birthmother
$2000-4000 –
travel fees; The consultant we will work with can match us with a mother in any
of the “safe states” and if we are matched outside of our home state we will be
expected to stay in that state for up to 15 days, waiting for court approval to
transfer that infant from that state, back to ours.
$25,000-45,000 –
Match with birthmother and remaining fees; this is where the biggest unknown
falls as far as costs. Depending on the
birthmother and where she “is” (adoption agency, state social services, etc.)
there will be various fees. These fees
cover the agency expenses and whatever the state allows for the
birthmother. The fees will cover all
services provided by the agency during the adoption process. These services may include obtaining medical
records, transporting to and from prenatal appointments, living expenses during
the pregnancy, acting as a liaison between the birthmother, our consultant, and
ourselves. Another IMPORTANT thing that
these expenses cover is counseling. We
strongly feel that we only want to partner with a birthmother that is sure that
adoption is the best choice for her baby.
We know God will provide us with the baby the He meant for us to have,
but we also want our birthmother to feel that it is the right choice. We would like this mother to be as
comfortable as possible with the adoption process and the very tough choices
she must make. We want to be sure that
she has support not only during the pregnancy, but afterwards as well.
What are we doing to help fund the adoption?
First, for those
who do not know us, we are BOTH employed (see personal biographies). Alicia has picked up and extra position
within her school district and will be teaching summer school, specifically to
set money aside for the adoption. Steve
has also been applying for positions within the school district with higher pay
in hopes to further fund our adoption. We
have also begun to sell things around our house that we don’t need or no longer
use. All of this money goes straight
into the adoption saving account. Alicia
is also in direct sales with Initials, Inc..
All of the commission that Alicia earns is put into the adoption savings
account.
As far as
fundraising, first we have set up a GoFundMe webpage for people to make
donations as they are comfortable. Next,
we held a garage sale during our local city-wide garage sale day. We made over $300 with that event. We were very lucky; as we had several friends
donate items for the garage sale. We do
plan to have another sale in the near future.
Currently we have a painting night fundraiser in the works. People are registering for the next week or
so and the event will be held in mid-July.
I have found that people REALLY like getting something for their
money/donation so we are looking into more fundraisers along those lines. So, as you can see, while we are accepting
donations and doing fundraisers, we are also sacrificing any time and items we
have to build up our adoption savings fund without any more help than necessary. If you have any other ideas for us, we will
always welcome helpful suggestions.
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